Save your life: Lessons on reducing stress

I was surfing my television channels early one Sunday morning and heard the Rev. Charles Stanley state, “stress is a killer.” It got my attention. His words also caused me to  reflect on personal experiences and the lives of others where it was evident that stress is indeed a killer or near killer. It’s interesting that stress is a neutral element, yet it is our reaction to it that creates the challenges that impact our physical and mental well-being, according studies from the John Hopkins School of Education.

Here are my tried-and-true recommendations on how to eliminate negative reactions to life stressors:

1. Identify your perception of any negative stress element impacting your life. Metaphysical teacher and author Louise L. Hay wrote a book, “You Can Heal Your Life” (Hay House) that offers life-changing advice and exercises to pinpoint key stress points. One of my sons had medical challenges that resulted in the loss of his eyesight at age 8. I utilized Hay’s book and similar works by spiritual authors to transform my life, and therefore, his experiences.

2. Do the work. Seek solutions to heal yourself from negative stress.. My college students often complain that they are “under stress” when they study for exams and complete projects. The obvious recommendations are to read the textbooks, ask questions in and out of the classrooms, and work on the projects upon learning of it.

3. Pray and meditate. Find prayers that relate to your circumstances. There are churches that incorporate quiet time/meditation into its services. Hillside Chapel & Truth Center in Atlanta, GA and Unity Eastside in Tallahassee, FL offer in-service meditation. Hillside has an introductory song to its meditation period, “I need to be still … when the people of the world start to push and shove me, I need to be still and let God love me.”

4. Read, post and live affirmations. There are positive and true statements about what you wish to do and who you are.  I just posted something on my wall to motivate me to return to my favorite place in life and that is to write. I am honoring this affirmation by blogging, working on scholarly research articles, and finishing a book.

5. Dedicated exercise. My doctor once informed me of horrible blood pressure and “bad” cholesterol numbers. She again informed me to exercise with a purpose. I increased my swimming and walking to at least five times a week, and my stress level was also reduced.

6. Practice the “Five Agreements.” A powerful book written by Don Miguel Ruiz, boasts a subtitle: “A practical guide to self-mastery.” It lives up to its billing. The five agreements are to 1) Be impeccable with your word; 2) Don’t take anything personally; 3) Don’t make assumptions; 4) Always do our best; and 5) Be skeptical, but learn to listen.” Read, listen and practice what Ruiz outlines and our stress will move to zero!

7. Absorb the content on the OWN Network, especially the Super Soul Sunday programming.

Finally, my favorite practice to remain de-stressed:

8. Laugh!


About awkimbrough

I've led a vibrant team that won an Atlanta Emmy award for television excellence in the public service category. I've earned many awards and received lots of recognition as a multi-media financial journalist. My career boasts of writing a multi-million grant and designing diversity curriculum for the Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games, and serving as the highest ranking woman in local governments throughout the state of Georgia. I am also a high achiever who had the vision to bring a $34 - $100 million project to the campus of a university that would change the trajectory of students and generations of people of color, albeit the university shelved the five-year effort. Yet, the works lives on and for that, I am grateful. Yet, my proudest and greatest accomplishments are found in the "hidden" life of Ann Lineve Wead Kimbrough and that is in spaces with my family, one-on-one mentoring with college students, my higher spiritual alliance and volunteer assignments to contribute to a better world. I am fortunate to have been a Mom to three amazing children who are now adults. Having a son with special needs -- blind and partially deaf -- have aided our family in closeness and joyous bonding around matters the world would otherwise believe to be one of "Oh, I'm sorry your son is blind." I am a better communicator and citizen of this world because I am the parent of a double-(physically) disabled child. I am a better parent because my first born is an achiever off the charts and proudly served as a member of the Marching 100 of Florida A&M University. I am a great woman because my only daughter is a minister of the Gospel, an exceptional veteran and life-long supporter of her visually impaired twin brother. I am a grateful grandmother because my children thought enough of their lives to bear great fruit. For those who want to read a traditional "About Me" here it is: I am a visiting faculty member @my grad school, Medill School of Journalism, Media, and Integrated Marketing Communications. Previously, I served as dean and professor of multimedia, innovative journalism in the Journalism & Graphic Design School at Florida A&M University. As an award-winning journalist and higher ed executive, my latest high profile project involves the multi-faceted development of a 'teaching hospital' formed via a public-private partnership and located on the FAMU campus. The public-private partnership's outcome is a multi-million-dollar, annual economic benefit to the north Florida region with direct benefits to communication students enrolled in programs at FAMU. FAMU's administration and board canceled the project. It has been a rewarding career where I have been transforming lives in education, government, and media for more 25 years. Also, as a ghost and co-writer of literary works that highlight the careers and lives of accomplished world shapers I am achieving a valued use of my talents and skills.
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